20. You Can Love Them and Still Leave

What do you do when you love someone, but the relationship is hurting you?

In this episode, I talk about one of the hardest parts of leaving: accepting that the loving version of someone you’ve seen may not be the version they can consistently be. I share how I spent years trying to explain my needs, teach my ex-husband how to treat me, and solve a relationship I couldn’t fix on my own.

We’ll talk about the pull of someone’s potential, the grief that comes with accepting what they’ve shown you, and why setting a boundary or walking away doesn’t require you to stop loving them first. Sometimes choosing yourself begins with letting reality be true.

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